Quiz For Givers!

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Needy people are drawn to me. I anticipate their needs and feel compelled to solve their problems. I feel responsible for other people's feelings and wellbeing.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 2.
  I wish people would understand what I need. I feel sad that I've spent my whole life giving to others but no one gives to me. 

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 3.
  I don't know what I want/need. I avoid talking about myself, my problems or feelings. I drop everything for others and settle for being needed. I feel uncomfortable when somebody offers me anything.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 4.
  I say yes too much. I bite off more than I can chew. Loved ones become angry at how I care for myself. I feel trapped and blame those I help for my situation.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 5.
  I trust untrustworthy people and get hurt again and again. I feel angry, unappreciated and used. I have difficulty standing up for myself and I am very hard on myself.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 6.
  I feel guilt when I spend money on myself. I feel guilt making time for fun. I lie to cover for others to protect them from feeling guilt.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 7.
  I lived with chaos and a family member with an addiction or severe mental illness. I experienced (neglect/emotional/physical/sexual) abuse and/or abandonment. OR I lived in a very strict family.

  • A.
    Yes
  • B.
    No
• 8.
  I am fearful of rejection and wonder whether people truly like me. I question if I can count on others. I enjoy helping others and lose interest in my own life.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 9.
  I worry about the silliest things, like am I doing enough. I check on people. I laugh or appear unbothered when I feel like crying.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 10.
  It's difficult to have fun and be spontaneous. I stick to strict rules. I get angry when others do not follow through with my plan. It's hard to let things happen naturally and let people be who they are.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 11.
  I feel angry when my help isn't appreciated. I feel angry often. I'm afraid of expressing my anger. I try to repress it. I am stressed by others anger too.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 12.
  I wonder why I never have any energy. I sacrifice for things that don't require sacrifice. I convince myself circumstances aren't as bad as they are. 

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 13.
  I have sex when I don't want to. I refuse to enjoy sex because I'm so angry with my partner. I reduce sex to a technical act.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all
• 14.
  I don't take the time to see if people are good for me. I believe lies from those I am helping. I stay in relationships with people that don't work, who are incapable of loving me.

  • A.
    Often
  • B.
    Sometimes
  • C.
    Not at all

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  You are a big hearted, people pleaser.

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  You love hard. You'll give loved ones the shirt off your own back if they asked for it. Everyone comes to you for advice or when they're in a bind. But you lately, you've felt more like a sucker than a super hero. You're feeling used, unappreciated and unconsidered. This takes a huge toll on your energy, mood, bandwidth for being social and your ability to focus on your own needs. You are not alone. You can overcome this!Don't worry, we won't leave you hanging. We want to share lots of freebies to help you overcome this common problem.If taking this quiz was eye opening for you, make sure you spread the love and let it help someone else too.Click below to share.
• 2.
  You're a part-time people pleaser.

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  You've come a long way. You're not who you used to be. And yet you still have some people pleasing tendancies that linger and get in the way of you enjoying life fully by your own terms without the lingering guilt, anger and burnout.You are not alone. You can overcome this!Don't worry, we won't leave you hanging. We want to share lots of freebies to help you overcome this common problem.If taking this quiz was eye opening for you, make sure you spread the love and let it help someone else too.Click below to share.
• 3.
  You are not a people pleaser.

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  You will say no REAL quick! You might've had an issue with not sticking to your gut or advocating for your boundaries before, but that is now a thing of the past. Take a bow! You did it!Now that you've overcome this, you can't help but see your friends and family struggling with the same issue. If taking this quiz was eye opening for you, make sure you spread the love and let it help someone else too.Click below to share.